What Would You Do If Someone Said Negative Things About Your Business... to the WORLD

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"Rick, PLEASE HELP!!!" One of my customers was so unhappy that I wouldn’t give her a refund on something she bought 6 months ago. She is destroying me on the internet. I don’t know what to do. Please help me.

"I believe in treating people fairly and honestly but this woman tried to return a $350 serving set that we sell mostly at Christmas time.  I did take it back but I gave her a gift card for $350, plus the tax she paid. She complained that she gets cash back everywhere she goes and she would never come back."

"Then this happened. As she was leaving the store, she noticed we had the exact same serving set in our clearance section. It happened to be marked down to $99. Yes, this woman bought and NOW she demanded the difference back in cash."

"We politely said no and that she would have to spend the balance. Again she opened a mouth and told us she would tell the world what horrible people we are and what a horrible business this was."

"Well, she did."

"She wrote posts on my blog, she sent out tweets, entries on Facebook and any social media networks you can imagine. Rick, what can I do and where do I go?"

Signed by Mary X, a Gift Shop Owner in the Midwest (The store owner wanted to remain anonymous but granted me permission to use this scenario.)

This is becoming a rapidly growing problem. The customer today has power over us like never before. We are almost at their mercy and it kills me to say that. Throw "FAIR" out the window. We are living in a world of FREE, have it your way, totally customized for you, type of world.

In a minute I will share what the experts on negative feedback say.  But I want you to consider two issues.

1. The cost of this negative publicity can be far more expensive than the return. Yes, I know it’s the principle BUT we can win a battle and lose a war. I once was almost involved in a lawsuit that I had a 100% chance of winning. But I chose NOT to sue because the cost of suing was more than the victory would have been.
2. We can be as nice as possible and still have a customer upset with us. So don’t beat yourself up and accept the new reality. Social media such as Twitter, Facebook, blogs and more are great tools to use to connect with customers. The great thing about social media is that you really put yourself out there. But with this openness, problems can occur.

But how do you deal with negative feedback?

• Create A Policy - Before you start having comments available whether it's through a blog or a Twitter conversation, make sure you clearly outline the organization's policy on commenting. I know it sounds excessive, but having some guidelines in place will ensure that you won't be caught off guard.
• Make sure it’s not libel - In the United States and in many countries around the world, truthful statements about another person are safe to publish. However, publishing outright lies with the intent to defame or injure the reputation of others is illegal.
• Don't Lash Out - It's easy to respond quickly when someone makes you mad. The best thing to do however is keep your cool, no matter what the situation. You will come off as the better person for it.
• Respond Publicly - If someone makes a negative comment, respond publicly to let others know how you've handled the situation. Maybe others were wondering the same thing, but didn't want to ask. Being able to handle the situation shows that you (and the organization) are in control.
• Respond Privately - This may seem the opposite to the point above, but let me explain. While some situations require a public response, others do not. If you are being harassed, you may not want the situation to play out over the blog. Also, if a negative situation is going back and forth many times, you should move that to a private conversation as to not interfere with your other posts/comments.
• Respond in a Timely Manner - If you take too long to reply, people may think that silence is your answer. Try to respond as quickly as you can, even if just to say that you will be able to provide an answer/opinion shortly. That way people know that you are involved.
• Be Clear and Concise - Nobody's going to read a response that's many paragraphs long. Keep your answers clear and concise and you will get your point across.

Mary, I hope this helps.

(A special thank you to the pros at Synthesis Communication and The Reputation Hawk for their contributions.)