Readers’ Response on How to Motivate High Potential Employees

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First, let’s thank Eunice for sending in a very interesting scenario that has brought out some really terrific responses.  The thing that is the most amazing is the wide variety of the ways people would handle this situation.  It’s hard to say what’s right and what’s wrong although many people certainly have their opinions.

I think the main issue here is the separation between employer and friend.  Can an employer be a friend?  Some people say no, however, my personal opinion is yes, an employer can be a friend of an employee with one condition.  That condition is that the employee NEVER puts the employer in a compromising situation, the way Tracy put Eunice in.  It works the other way as well.  An employer should never put an employee in a compromising or embarrassing situation.  Basic management says you never reprimand an employee in public.  What is critically important to understand is that the health of the business comes first.  

By Tracy not coming in when she is expected, it hurts the business.  It is not healthy for the business.  The reason why is ownership cannot depend on her, and her co-workers can feel slighted because you have one employee who is on a pedestal and can do anything they want.  Can’t you hear it now ”that’s not fair” and it hurts the morale of the business.  The owner also loses credibility with the other employees because of poor management practices.  Lastly, the customers become the biggest losers because she is never there when they expect her.  

Having said all of that, I still personally would take the loss of such a talented employee as a personal defeat.  I would look at having to fire her as a sign that I did not manage the situation as best as I could.  The following are excerpts from the responses received from this article.  You can read the complete responses on my blog at ricksegel.com/blog. 

• Wow! That has DEPRESSION written all over it! Sounds to me like Tracy needs real help! It makes perfect sense considering all that has happened to her.  Still he fact that she's such a wonderful employee and quite capable day.  I don't think this is a discipline problem. She seriously needs mental help!” -Donna Erwin
• “You need to sit down with her and confront her.  She will probably  refuse at first, but it must be done.  She needs professional help.
  
  Plan on making arrangements to meet with her at least twice a week. You will need to make her feel grounded and loved again before she can move on with her life and enjoy working at your store.  
  
  It’s not usually the responsibility of an employer to make things right but this could be a worthwhile investment.” -Mehdi
• “Encourage Tracy to attend classes and you may even offer to pay something for them.  Working toward a degree will boost her morale.” -Melissa Bailey
• “Have her champion a cause through the store, one that might be close to her situation, such as a cause for single mothers.  Find a charity that is in alignment with her needs. This will give her more of a sense of purpose and may motivate her to have better attendance.” -Phil Wrzesinski  
• “You may not want to fire her, but allowing her to come as she pleases is only enabling Tracy to continue this behavior. You can't be both her friend and her employer, so you will have to choose which one you would rather be. If you choose to be her employer, than perhaps a 30 day review should be set up, with your expectations clearly stated - including letting her go if those expectations are not met. After 30 days you would need to decide - does she stay or does she go. Sounds like tough love, but Tracy is an adult. The choice is hers.” -K. Wooden
• “Regardless of the reasons, this behavior is not appropriate and establishing boundaries and limitations is up to the employer. This is true whether the employee is a top producer or not, and the employer must not use being a good producer as justification for not confronting the problems.  My recommendation is for the employer to work on her ability to be a more effective manager, specifically in understanding what the correct roles are between she and her employees.” -Philip M. Barcellona
• Yes, she may have lost you one $5,000 sale. But weigh it against the unbelievable sales numbers she garners you. If you didn't have her, how many sales would you lose?  
   
  Can you work around her limitations? For example, don't schedule her to open, only schedule appointments with her in the late afternoon, notify customers if she won't be in that day and reschedule them to another day or another salesperson (whatever works).   
   
  I've had my share of unreliable employees -- and fired them. However, in this situation, firing her may cost you more in the long run than working around her shortcomings.” -Karen
• “I have had employees like this in the past... one minute they are your biggest headache and the next they are blowing you away with brilliance! I have 2 suggestions that I have used in the past.
• Give her more responsibility. She understands that what she is doing affects the business and when shown the errors she makes them right; she genuinely feels bad for her actions. By forcing her to be more responsible she might rise to the challenge.  
• Take away all responsibility. If you don't need to rely on her for anything then you will rarely be disappointed.
  
  Separate your personal feeling for her from the needs of the business so you can make rational decisions.” -Jared Habre
• “Sounds like a drinking or drug problem to me.  I don't care how good of a sales person she is, she is being abusive to Eunice and the other employees.  Eunice needs to learn to sell more herself and learn from Tracy as do the other 14 employees.” -Sharla Bush

It was also suggested that Eunice pay for counseling and 30 days off with pay.  I personally think that may be going overboard because that is a sizable investment, but if it worked it would be worth it.  This was a wonderful thought provoking exercise that I would love to repeat.  So, send in your scenarios and let’s see how we can help you.  Eunice, thanks again, and I hope this helped.

Have a great week!